.....PRODUCE A PROFILE.....

This sounds like something the government does with criminals, murderers, childmolesters and terrorists. Yes, that's exactly how i feel......except we have to make our own profile so people can see how wonderful, not aweful, we are. Why do we have to prove ourselves, make us sound worthy and faithful to an outside world? Granted, a person will hand over a living, breathing human being they produced and expect us to be good to it. One question......why would we go through all this trouble if we planned on not being good to this child???? Do child molesters and criminals go through all this....? NO - they kidnap children if they want one for bad purposes. SO, what does this profile need to be???? I realize we must tell the truth but who shows pictures of anything bad? - Do they want pictures of my quirks and weirdnesses......"sheet over, sheet over", washing my hair with only conditioner, eating absolutely nothing that crumbles in the bed?
They cannot expect the whole truth.....but are we that bad? Do they need to know the slight weirdness? They need to know we have good hearts, that God will be #1 and we will be fun parents.....right? They already know we have gone through all this stuff right?? How bad can we be?
I just don't want to put too much pressure on myself (T sits back and lets me do my "magic") If it fails it will be my fault, if it doesn't, more power to both of us!
Maybe i'll put this picture on the front ---it's how i feel.......