Last night i called the lawyer who does adoptions. Most of his adoptions are step-children and such but he can do a straight adoption, he knows the ropes and all the legal stuff about it. I called the OB and gave the secretary the information - i'm not even sure she wrote it down. What if she's not even telling the Doctor that i called? Maybe she's against it. I wonder if i should talk to the doctor again myself.? I told her to have the family call the lawyer and that would keep the doctor out of it completely - that what she wants - as little to do with it as possible. I'm putting it in God's hands....if it's meant to be......